Now, now, I’ll just make myself more comfortable in the chair. And I’ll also take my favorite toy, wonderfully beautiful and fluffy, and completely airy in weight! Not otherwise, such dogs only exist in heaven, and I have one. So, I sat her down on my lap, closed my eyes tightly and tried to remember in more detail that evening that I want to tell you about. For some reason, you remember some episodes as ordinary, while others, as if they were special, you look at and are moved by them for a long time.
One day this is what happened to me... Once I came to the Philharmonic for a concert of jazz music of organ and saxophone. You probably also noted the incredible combination of these far from equivalent in sound and appearance tools? And it seemed the same to me. Yes, I myself looked in the same version, like a combination of the incredible.
I remember standing at the cash register, waiting for my friend and looking at the posters with interest. Wow... The Valley is coming to us! How much can it cost? And to find out, you had to wait in line. I decided there was no need to rush - I’d just wait in the general row. I got up, but got distracted by something, and the one who was behind me was already ahead.
Oh, should I just ask? - I smiled simply at myself and the queue.
I smiled again, but now at him! And it turned out very playful and playful for me. And the mood was great! Yes, yes, it was! And that’s why mischievous gaiety bubbled out of me. Or maybe this was my mood because the heavenly office gave us, Samara residents, completely unseasonably excellent weather. And this weather whispered in everyone’s ear: “Rejoice, rejoice, man!” Autumn is coming! People, take a moment and enjoy! Open your eyes wider. Hurry up to meet a colorful, bright and warm autumn!” That's right, that's why I said cheerfully:
Of course I will allow it. “Calculate,” I said royally, “but I’ll note: dissatisfaction doesn’t suit you at all,” and again she smiled sweetly at the guy standing in front, who looked like a faded burdock.
And then, right in front of the entire honest public, a miracle happened. This wizened admirer of the Valley gave me a gracious smile and, embarrassed, admitted:
My mother tells me exactly the same thing... You and her even have a similar voice and tone.
After saying “mom,” something warm and tender stirred inside me. Instantly I wanted to press this little head with its wrinkled nose and narrowed eyes close to my heart. For some reason, his confession evoked emotion. Why? And who would...
A sincere, completely boyish thing burst out from the depths of the soul of that stranger, who for me was more like a stranger than cute, and his face was immediately transformed. Now the cute and cute creature stood opposite! His eyes flashed with a sly light. Without any agreement or understanding, we burst out laughing... And he gently pushed me towards the cash register. I asked the cashier about the ticket price.
I'm sorry, what? How much, how much? – my acquaintance became worried.
No, no, you heard right,” I confirmed, voicing the price I heard. It’s hard to imagine, but this was exactly the size of Larisa’s price.
Don't you have a sponsor? - the man continued the dialogue. In the same manner in which he had just spoken about his mother, I sang confidentially in my own way:
N-e-e-a...
“I don’t believe it,” the acquaintance said with some cunning. -Do you know why I don’t believe you? Yes, because this Valley is resting next to you. With such an appearance, not she, but you, needs to be on the stage.
We laughed merrily again. I smiled condescendingly at his sweet “truth,” which only looked like that to the two of us. And then, without hesitation, he grabbed me by the arm and led me out of the foyer into the street. Already as best friends, as if we had known each other for an eternity, we looked sweetly into each other’s eyes and built bridges.
My name is Yura! And you?
And I’m Milana Lyudmilovna, but you can just say Lana.
It seemed that all the spectators, crowded in front of the entrance to the Philharmonic, looked at our cute couple with undisguised interest. Apparently, Indian summer had firmly clung to everyone who did not want to part with the warmth of the delayed summer. That is why the general mood matched the weather. Acquaintances and strangers seemed to deliberately linger around, studying our happy faces. For some reason they wanted to stay nearby... And for some reason they wanted to say a few pleasant words. The same attitude was visible in the radiant gaze of my companion. How nice it is to feel like a queen! I enchanted Yura! And she herself was fascinated by him!
I listened to the dialogue between the organ and the saxophone far from Yurochka. We didn’t manage to change places, but that’s even good, since I was tormented by a cascade of all sorts of “What if, what if?!” And, in fact, standing at the cash register, I would have thrown in an extra word. Or didn’t she finish it? Or would she inadvertently express her resentment? Oh, it’s not without reason that life has come up with the formula “silence is golden”... They say that we learn to speak for three years, but to remain silent for the rest of our lives. How true are those wise words!
What if I threw out my usual funny phrases? After all, I do this quite often, I manage to go both left and right, without even choosing a side. Of course, among my own people, my jokes are still appreciated and passed off as bright jokes... oh! God, how good it is that at the moment I have not distinguished myself with my “cheerful eloquence.” After all, this is how you can inadvertently reject someone who can become not just necessary, but also your soulmate...
Pah-pah... Oh, how important it is to have a good disposition, attitude and, most importantly, the ability to remain silent in time. And after all, how much depends on a pleasant smile, on kind understanding and presentation of oneself. It is necessary to maintain control over your personality. And what control!
“Listen to yourself. Look around. Take a closer look at those opposite. Learn to do it. And don’t rush to show yourself in an unimportant way.” - I told myself this while listening to music. Even though I was educating myself, I was in a wonderful mood. And this is the merit of the delayed summer!
Here's the conclusion! Here's the summary! You have to hold back! Shut up in time! Smile once again, and at any hour and in any place. Then you will be able to get more pleasure and experience an extra amount of happiness! Then you will be rewarded! Then you won’t make your life worse, but rather prolong it!
But sometimes, an inaccurate phrase that has an unpleasant connotation can change your life not for the better. Oh, sometimes we can so easily make the wrong changes in our destiny through our actions. After all, I could ruin the mood of a stranger without letting him understand that many women are tolerant... They can be smiling! And they are in a normal mood, much more often. And they are ready to see in a stranger someone who is completely their own and close in spirit!
And I continued those tests at home, sitting comfortably in my favorite chair, tightly hugging my dog, which was completely airy in weight, the kind that only happens in heaven! And then she made another discovery. Man is the finest matter! And, basically, this is how it turns out: as it comes back, so it will respond. One word that sounded sincerely about my mother helped me to reveal the unknown to this day - Yura, Yurochka, Yuri. Yurasika!!! And see in him not only kindness, but also a beautiful person! It’s so nice to feel that there are many more good people around you than different ones...
Please explain to me the meaning of the saying “What goes around comes around” and I got the best answer
Answer from Nina Duke[guru]
Based on the meaning of the proverb, this is a law of nature that the force of action is equal to the force of reaction, while the law of conservation of energy works, the law that everything is emptiness and objects are condensed emptiness. Well, if we proceed from the meaning of the phrase, then there are many laws from quantum physics. The angle of incidence is equal to the angle of reflection or carpuscular wave duality, others are possible...
Well, to put it simply, what goes around comes around
Answer from Lucky[guru]
As he gets worse, he will start asking for help from others, something like this...
Answer from Mikhin[guru]
If you do something, they’ll do it for you too. the current is stronger. same with the good ones...
Answer from Yura Tarasov[guru]
Don't play with a boomerang, don't do these experiments, trust the folk wisdom
Answer from Symbol[guru]
what a hello - such an answer, what goes around comes around...
Answer from Alexandrova Oksana[guru]
If you do evil to another, expect reciprocal evil from him, but if you give a piece of warmth and tenderness to your loved one, you will receive a lot, a lot of positive things from him! He who gives receives!! (in a good sense of the word)
Answer from Ipohondrik_[guru]
In fact, this is a very simple saying, but I can give an example: If you suddenly hurt someone very much, then most likely it will come back to you in the same form, but perhaps from another person... I hope you understand what I mean to you tried to say)
Answer from J. Berlinsky[guru]
When an echo is artificially caused, they usually shout: A-UUU
and the echo reflects back in exactly the same way: A-UUU
to put it simply, whatever you shout (hack) will echo back.
And the meaning of the saying is that what you do to someone will come back to you.
like - they will answer good with good, evil with evil, etc.
Answer from Ruslan Safiullin[active]
you can't say out loud what you shouldn't say
Answer from Bum[guru]
boomerang principle as you and to you
Answer from Yustam Burlakov[active]
When you shout “AU”, it will be reflected from the wall and come back to you! If you do good, good will come back! If you do evil, evil will return! Law of life! Friends, the main thing is not to hurt anyone, because the echo is much stronger than your scream!
Answer from Olga Druzgalskaya[active]
What goes around comes around
Answer from Kys-Kyss[guru]
Who vi sdelaete, to i vam sdelayut.
Answer from 00007
[guru]
as soon as you respond, it’s a joke))
Answer from User deleted[expert]
This means that any nasty thing you do will come back to you.
Answer from Philip petrov[guru]
like, “Don’t spit in the well: if it flies out, you won’t catch it!” :)
Answer from Victoria[guru]
Love people and they will be drawn to you!
Answer from PsychoFox[guru]
What you share with others will be returned to you. Everything is very simple. Law of life.
Yalginsky orphanage-school
Conducted by: Zhivava T.I.,
family educator No. 1
Saransk 2011
Goals:
- help children live in society: communicate, listen and hear others;
- explain how the “boomerang law” works.
Progress of the conversation
We all live in a society. We are surrounded by adults and small children, young and old, men and women, relatives and strangers. And we all should be able to find mutual language, communicate with different people in different situations.
Communication is the exchange of information using language and gestures, as well as other methods of contact.
Do you think we can live without communication?
(No. We communicate with our family members, relatives, friends, at school we communicate with teachers and classmates, then we will work and communicate at work; even old people who do not work communicate when they go to the store, call the doctor).
Yes you are right. A person cannot live without communicating with other people, but one can communicate not only kindly, but also through a quarrel or a fight - this is also communication. Do you like it?(No.)
We are connected with other people by thousands of threads. Our success in study, work, our health and life itself depend on these people. Your social circle is not only class and family. After all, many of you are involved in art, music, sports and other various sections and clubs. Therefore, it is simply necessary to learn cultural communication.
What kind of person do we call sociable?
Explanatory dictionary of the Russian language S.I. Ozhegova gives this definition of the word communicative :
Sociable – easily able to communicate with others, not withdrawn.
What qualities does a person need to communicate?
Let's choose the most from the words written on the board necessary qualities for communication.
(Before the conversation, write down positive human qualities on the board.)
Smart
Curious
Erudite
Versatile
Wise
Reasonable
Explanatory
Hardworking
Diligent
Kind
Soft
Delicate
Tactful
Polite
Well-mannered
Soulful
Cordial
Responsive
Honest
Straight
Sincere
Able to sympathize and empathize
Fair
Reliable comrade
Selfless (not greedy)
Modest
Funny
Cute
Cute
Careful
Listener
How do you understand the words “delicate”, “tactful”?
(Delicate - polite, soft-spoken.
Tactful - having tact, done with tact.
Tact is a sense of proportion that creates the ability to behave in a decent, appropriate manner.)
(After the discussion, the teacher underlines the necessary words.)
So, for communication you need:
- the ability to listen to your interlocutor;
- the ability to sympathize and empathize;
- tact;
- delicacy;
- responsiveness.
Would you like to be treated delicately and tactfully? It's rude and impolite.
Of course not. Because such communication will cause a reciprocal feeling in the interlocutor.
There is such an expression:"boomerang law".
What is a boomerang?
A boomerang is a weapon that returns to the one who threw it.
And if a person has committed some kind of unkind act, then the evil will return to him. If a person offends others, they will treat him the same way. This is the “boomerang law”.
Let's select a Russian proverb for this expression.
(“As it comes back, so it will respond” - someone’s attitude towards others causes a similar attitude of others towards this person).
Let's restore erased phrases from one student's diary. Listen to snippets of these phrases and try to guess their endings.
1. “I grabbed the railing, and my hand came across someone’s nasty and sticky chewing gum. And suddenly I remembered..."
What did this student remember?
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I also stuck gum everywhere, without thinking about other people.”
2. “I arrived at the river, and the entire bank was strewn with cans and dirty paper. And suddenly I remembered...” What?
Sample answer:
– I remembered that I also threw garbage without thinking about other people.
3. “I forgot my pen and no one gave me a spare one. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I was also greedy and did not want to share with others.
4. “During recess, someone tripped me, I fell, and everyone laughed. It was painful and offensive. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I also tripped the guys and laughed when they fell.
5. “I forgot to learn the rule and got a bad mark. Everyone laughed at me. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I also rejoiced at other people’s failures.
6. “In the dining room, someone poured tea into my plate of porridge, and I was left hungry. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I also did the same, without thinking about other people.
7. “Someone hid my briefcase, and I spent the whole lesson looking for it, for which I received a remark in my diary. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I also hid other people’s things for fun.”
8. “We were cleaning the school site, and I alone had to take out piles of leaves because everyone had run away. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I, too, often shirked general cleaning, not thinking that others would do my work for me.
9. “We were playing football, and some high school student took the ball from us and threw it onto the roof of the garage. And suddenly I remembered..."
Sample answer:
“I remembered that I also hurt kids using my power.”
Educator. It seems to me that you managed to guess the meaning of these phrases. And what law did this student break? (“Boomerang Law.”)
What needs to be done to make the “boomerang law” stop working?
Sample answers from children:
– We must remember that on this planet all his bad deeds come back to a person like a boomerang.
You should always treat others the way you would like them to treat you.
Guys, in order for the “law of the boomerang to cease to apply, so that you are treated the way you want, you need to remember simple rules:
When communicating you cannot:
- Lecturing your interlocutor or speaking in a commanding tone.
- Do not listen or interrupt your interlocutor.
- Humiliate (offend) your interlocutor.
- To speak negatively (badly) about him.
- Carp.
- Get distracted.
How to avoid a quarrel:
- Don't focus on yourself in the conversation.
- Look your interlocutor in the eyes.
- Mentally put yourself in the shoes of your interlocutor and try to understand him.
- Try to feel how you would behave in his place?
Words of apology (I apologize; I ask for an apology; I’m very upset; I’m embarrassed; I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to; apologize for me), words of gratitude (thank you, thank you), words of request (please be kind), words of greeting ( hello, hello, good afternoon), words of farewell (goodbye, see you, see you tomorrow).
Summing up the conversation.
What conclusion did you draw from our conversation? Let's remember the Russian proverb.
Internet sources:
Ministry of Education and Science of the Republic of Kazakhstan
Specialized boarding school “Daryn”
Class hour on the topic:
Prepared and conducted by Bertaeva Gulzhakhan
Class hour on the topic:
“As it comes around, so it will respond”
Smart goals:
Explain the content and necessity of moral standards of respect and self-respect;
Form your own position towards respect, friendship, happiness, as a moral category.
Tasks:
Develop interpersonal skills;
Reveal various ways developing respect and self-esteem among students.
Equipment:
Tables are arranged for work in 4 groups; on the table of each group there are blank A4 sheets, colored stickers, markers, felt-tip pens, heart cards, questionnaires, and a large heart poster.
Class progress
1. Introduction to the topic
The class hour begins with a greeting. All participants stand in a circle and greet their neighbors by shaking hands, smiling at each other, then take their seats, dividing into 4 groups at the request of the teacher.
Teacher. The Chinese thinker Shou-Dao once told his students: “Show respect to those who are worthy of it, for there is nothing shameful in this; show respect to those who yearn for it, for there is nothing difficult about it; show respect to those who are not worthy of it, for in everyone there is something worthy of respect.”
Many years have passed since the world first heard these words, but both Shaw's students and contemporaries continue to follow these wise advice. Why do you think?
Students.-Probably in interpersonal communication respect plays a very big positive role; - people probably value this feeling and quality very much; people strive for good and kindness, and respect can be considered as a manifestation of kindness, warmth, care; Mutual respect is a guarantee of good-natured relationships between people and a guarantee of effective teamwork.
Teacher. This means that this is an important moral category, and you, people who are still learning to build their relationships with others, have something to discuss today at our class hour, form your attitude towards respect, friendship, happiness, as a moral category.
Students. When we show respect to other people, we also receive respect from them; I think that by respecting others, we raise our own
self-esteem; Respect from other people makes you feel needed, important, and interesting.
2. “Associative series”
Teacher. It's time to define what respect is. Discuss in groups and continue the associative series.
Respect is...
Students. They work in groups, then, in turn, a representative from each group continues the row started on the board.
Respect- this is respect, admiration, recognition of merit, an indication of merit, high appreciation, the desire to be like, admiration, the provision of honors, recognition of the equality of all people.
Teacher. As we see, it is no coincidence that many people try to gain the respect of others. What is self-respect? Mutual respect?
Students. The same feelings, only a person experiences them for himself; mutual feelings of respect, admiration, recognition, etc.
3. “The proverb is said for a reason”
Teacher. We know that folk wisdom has always been concentrated in proverbs and sayings, in which the common people expressed their attitude towards human virtues and shortcomings, including respect and disrespect. Now the two groups will be offered such proverbs: Respect is hard to earn, but easy to lose (Russian proverb) and
If you respect people, then you show respect to yourself.
Participants in these groups will have to analyze the proverb and explain it to us. For this, they can use all the handouts they need for their work.
4. Verbal portraiture
Teacher. The other two groups and I will try to create a portrait of a respectful person. What moral qualities underlie such a personality? What should a respectful person be like?
Students. Work in groups on pre-prepared posters, then take turns
a representative of each group defends the drawn up scheme.
U 
important person
Kind responsive
funny honest
communicative noble
attentive truthful
delicate sincere
caring reasonable modest
Then teams perform defending proverbs.
Teacher. Since today we are touching on the ethics of human relations, there is also such a thing as friendship. Where does it begin? And how did the word FRIEND come into being?
The word "Friend".
When no one knew a word yet -
Neither “hello”, nor “sun”, nor “cow” -
The ancient man got used to his neighbors
Show fist or tongue
And make faces (which is the same thing),
But the word became a guttural sharp sound,
More meaningful face, smarter hands
And the man came up with the word "friend"
He began to wait for his friend and grieve in separation.
He is calm for my friends.
How would I live, what would I do without them?
Friends - people I love
I will never do anything to offend you
This is not why our ancestor walked through the darkness,
So that when I meet a friend, I shout: “Fool!”
Showed tongue or fist
And made faces (which is the same thing)
And I will save an evil word,
Let the enemy get it!
What a wonderful word - "friendship"! You say it and immediately remember your friend with whom you are interested in playing snowballs, reading new book or keep your own secrets.
Teacher. Now we will play a game: "Find out who I am..." Previously, you and I wrote questionnaires about ourselves. Now, while a clip about friendship is shown, you should recognize your classmate from the questionnaires.
Clip about friendship
The results of the game are read out.
The ability to make friends and communicate with people must be learned from childhood. You cannot be indifferent to the grief of others, you must always remember that a person lives once on Earth, so you need to do good every day.
Don't stand aside indifferently
When someone is in trouble.
Need to rush to the rescue
Any minute, always.
And if it helps anyone
Your kindness and your friendship,
You are happy that the day was not lived in vain!
You don't live in vain!
Be cheerful so that you become happier
To the one with whom you become friends,
So that everyone has enough in life
Wonderful human kindness.
But, unfortunately, not all of us have friends! And if someone doesn’t have a friend, then why could this happen? (Children express their opinions.) Yes, most often precisely because the person himself is not ready to become a true friend for someone. For example, he begins to be capricious, demanding too much from a friend without offering anything in return.
Mamataminova Yulduz reads a poem:
A friend knows good luck,
Just like in trouble sometimes.
If he doesn't hide his soul,
Feelings are not kept in check.
A friend knows good luck,
If luck is yours
The friend is not happy, which means
Your friend is as crafty as a snake.
Or bitter envy
His mind was clouded.
And, coveting your success,
He won't forgive anything.
He won't forgive, but otherwise
He will tell you about it.
A friend knows good luck
Sometimes more than in trouble.
Teacher. Friendship is a gift given to a person. Therefore, each of us should not only value true friends, but also should be good friend.No need to be offended or offended. Right? You must be able to forgive, not accumulate evil within yourself, and not be vindictive. After all, resentment destroys life. There is a Russian proverb: Whoever remembers the old, look out!
Teacher. When a person is respected, when he has many friends and feels confident, what other basic feeling does a person experience?
Students: Happiness
Teacher. The great B. Pascal said: “We are happy, I only feel that we are respected.” You have beautiful daisies on your tables. The middle of the daisy is filled with the words: I am happy when... But you must write the rest on the petals yourself.
Clip about happiness
While watching a clip about happiness, students do work. Then the daisies are hung on the board and the statements are read out.
A poem about happiness is sung by Sultanova Dinara’s mother, Markhabat Shakirbekovna.
Reflection:
Markhabat Shakirbekovna: Guys, you already understand that a happy person can overcome anything. I wish each of you to have a true true friend, to be able to value friendship and be happy.
Now look here (points to the board). The screen depicts a huge heart that is ready to love everyone and help everyone. This is the heart of your class! There is a small pocket here where each of you can put a heart with kind and wise wishes for yourself, your class, or your friend. We will open this pocket, filled with the goodness of your heartfelt thoughts, in 3.5 years, when you finish 11th grade. All this time the pocket will be kept by the class teacher. (Students write notes, music plays.)
My wish to you: always try to help each other, be faithful and good friends, remember your word.
Music is playing. The guys write wishes and put them in a pocket.
Teacher: And now we will ask our guests to say: who, in their opinion, proved to be the most active participant, good friend and generally happy person?
The guests confer and say the answer.
Teacher: Did you know that among the orders that are awarded to people for a variety of merits, there is a very special order HAPPINESS. This order in Poland is awarded to people who know how to give others the joy of communication. The presentation of the order is a solemn ceremony. Now let's stand in a circle and reward our hero with a glass of lemon juice, which he must drink with a smile!
And now we will all say the words of the famous Kozma Prutkov together “If you want to be happy, be it!”
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